In life always keep an eye out on the gap between who spends all manner of resources on who, who cared for who juxtaposed against who has a blood lust trying to destroy who.
Run that mental exercise with people who come into your life. Notice the gap, the chasm. When one looks back and realizes the imbalance of invested time, money, care and energy spent it truly can be an eye opener.
Now, look to the present – see those that invested nothing now investing all their energy trying to hurt, damage destroy lives in a prolonged, calculated execution.
If someone never lifted a finger to help you, or worse works harder to harm you, that ever helped you, it kinda tells you a whole bunch about who they really are.
Choices. Not emotions or breakdowns in a thunderstorm of confusion and angst. Rational, thoughtful considerate loving choices for the betterment of others.
Choices. I see them everyday.
Words mean nothing. Sincerity is in actions, so prove otherwise.